We've all been there. Nodding along in a meeting when we disagree. Buying the latest gadget because "everyone has one". Sharing an article we haven't read just because it's trending. It's easy to fall into the trap of following the crowd, to become one of the 'sheeple'.
The term 'sheeple' - obviously a blend of 'sheep' and 'people' - might sound harsh, but it captures a real phenomenon. It's our tendency to follow others without question, to conform without thinking. And it seems that nowadays, this behaviour is more visible and more prevalent than ever.
But here's the thing: following isn't always bad. Sometimes, it's downright essential. We follow traffic laws to stay safe - no one wants ‘creative innovation’ when it comes to driving on the left (unless you aren’t in the UK, Malta, New Zealand or one of the 76 countries that do!). We follow recipes to cook edible meals (most of the time). We follow experts in fields we're trying to learn. Following can be a shortcut to knowledge, a path to efficiency, a way to cooperate and coexist.
The problem arises when we follow blindly, when we lose our sense of self in the crowd. When we sacrifice our authenticity and integrity on the altar of conformity.
This piece today isn't about condemning 'sheeple' behaviour. It's about understanding it. It's about recognising when following serves us and when it harms us. It's about finding the courage to stand apart when necessary, and the wisdom to join in when appropriate.
We'll explore the psychology behind our herd mentality, the benefits and pitfalls of conformity, and the challenges of maintaining authenticity in a world that often rewards uniformity. We'll look at how to cultivate integrity, how to lead with genuineness, and how to navigate the grey areas where the right path isn't always clear.
This isn't just abstract philosophy. It's about making better decisions in our daily lives, in our workplaces, in our communities. It's about being true to ourselves while still being part of something larger.
The Allure of the Herd
There's a certain comfort in being part of a crowd. It's warm, it's safe, and best of all, it requires minimal thought. But why are we so drawn to this collective cosiness? Our tendency to follow others is deeply rooted in our evolutionary past. Back when we were dodging sabre-toothed tigers and foraging for berries, sticking with the group was often the difference between life and death. Those who followed survived, and passed on their genes. We're the descendants of excellent followers.
This instinct served us well for millennia. But in today's world, it can lead us astray. Take social media, for instance. These platforms are essentially herd mentality on steroids. We see what's popular, what's trending, and we feel an urge to join in. Before we know it, we're doing dance challenges we don't understand or sharing opinions we haven't really thought through.
The fear of missing out (FOMO) plays a big role here. We worry that if we don't jump on the bandwagon, we'll be left behind. It's why we binge-watch shows we don't even enjoy, just to be part of the conversation. It's why we queue for hours to buy the latest iPhone, even if our current one works perfectly fine. Robert Cialdini, the guru of influence, calls it "social proof" - our monkey-see-monkey-do instinct.
Cialdini introduced the concept of social proof as one of his six principles of influence in his groundbreaking book "Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion." Social proof is the idea that people look to the actions of others to guide their own behaviour, especially in uncertain situations. He argues that this tendency is deeply rooted in our psychology and serves as a mental shortcut for decision-making. In his words,
"We view a behaviour as more correct in a given situation to the degree that we see others performing it."
Robert Cialdini
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This principle explains why we're more likely to try a restaurant with a long queue, laugh along with a laugh track on a sitcom, or follow fashion trends. However, Cialdini also warns that social proof can be manipulated, leading people to make poor decisions or act against their own interests. Marketers and influencers often exploit this principle to drive consumer behaviour. Understanding social proof can help individuals make more conscious choices and resist undue influence from the crowd.
But it's not just about fear. Following the crowd can be genuinely useful. It's a mental shortcut, a way to navigate complex situations without having to analyse every detail. If everyone else is wearing a coat, it's probably cold outside. If a band sells out gigs, the music is likely good (erm…Taylor Swift…? Usually, anyway!). We use social proof as a guide, and often, it serves us well.
In the workplace, conformity can be a survival strategy. We adopt the company culture, mirror the behaviour of successful colleagues, and align ourselves with the prevailing opinions. It's a way to fit in, to be seen as a team player. And let's be honest, it's often the path of least resistance.
The allure of the herd is also about belonging. Humans are social creatures. We crave connection, acceptance, and validation. When we follow the crowd, we become part of something larger than ourselves. It's why football fans feel a sense of identity with their team, why people join clubs and societies, why we form tribes around brands and ideologies.
Another perspective on this phenomenon comes from Gustave Le Bon, a French social psychologist who is often considered the founder of crowd psychology. In his seminal work The Crowd: A Study of the Popular Mind, Le Bon explored the behaviour of individuals when they become part of a crowd. I am not a 19th Century French scholar so relied on a few sources to look at his work.
Le Bon argued that when individuals become part of a crowd, they lose their individual identity and consciousness, becoming part of a collective mind. He believed that crowds could bring out both the best and worst in human nature, often leading to more extreme behaviours than individuals would display on their own. He implies that the most striking peculiarity presented by a psychological crowd is the following:
“Whoever be the individuals that compose it, however like or unlike be their mode of life, their occupations, their character, or their intelligence, the fact that they have been transformed into a crowd puts them in possession of a sort of collective mind which makes them feel, think, and act in a manner quite different from that in which each individual of them would feel, think, and act were he in a state of isolation."
Gustave Le Bon
Le Bon's work predates modern social media and digital technology, but his insights into crowd behaviour are still relevant today. The "collective mind" he describes can be seen in online communities, social media trends, and viral phenomena.
While Le Bon's views were more focused on the potentially negative aspects of crowd behaviour (he was writing in the aftermath of the French Revolution and was concerned about mob violence), his work provides a valuable counterpoint to more recent theories. Where Cialdini sees social proof as a useful heuristic that can sometimes lead us astray, Le Bon saw crowd behaviour as a fundamental transformation of human psychology.
But here's the rub: while following can provide comfort and convenience, it can also rob us of our individuality. It can stifle creativity, suppress dissent, and lead to poor decision-making. When everyone's nodding along, who's left to point out the emperor has no clothes?
The challenge, then, is to recognise the pull of the herd without being blindly drawn in. To understand our instincts without being ruled by them. To find the balance between being part of the group and maintaining our sense of self.
When does following actually serve us well? Because sometimes, the crowd really does know best.
When Following Serves Us Well
Let's not throw the baby out with the bathwater. Following isn't always a bad thing. In fact, there are plenty of situations where going with the flow is not just acceptable, but downright sensible.
Take learning, for instance. When we're picking up a new skill, following an expert's lead is crucial. You wouldn't want a surgeon who decided to "wing it" in the operating theatre, would you? Apprenticeships, mentoring, and traditional education all rely on a degree of following. It's how knowledge and skills are passed down and refined.
In the workplace, following established processes can be essential for efficiency and safety. Imagine if every Greggs employee decided to bake steak bakes their own way. Chaos. Delicious chaos, perhaps, but chaos nonetheless. Maybe that’s what happened with the vegan sausage roll…
Standardised procedures ensure consistency and quality.
Following social norms greases the wheels of society. We queue politely, we say "please" and "thank you", we don't wear pyjamas to job interviews (usually). These unwritten rules make our interactions smoother and more predictable. They're the social glue that holds us together.
In times of crisis, following instructions can be lifesaving. When the captain says "abandon ship", it's not the moment to start a debate about maritime law. Sometimes, quick compliance is necessary for collective safety.
Following can also be a form of respect. When we visit a place of worship, we follow the customs out of reverence for others' beliefs. When we're guests in someone's home, we follow their house rules. It's about acknowledging that we're not always the centre of the universe.
Following certain principles helps maintain a just society. We follow laws not just to avoid punishment, but because we recognise their role in protecting individual rights and promoting the common good. (Although let's be honest, the fear of a parking ticket does wonders for our parallel parking skills.)
Even in innovative thinking and practice, following has its place. Isaac Newton famously said, "If I have seen further, it is by standing on the shoulders of giants." Progress often comes from building on what others have already discovered or created.
Robert K. Merton talked about some of this. He argues that scientific discoveries and innovations are rarely the product of lone geniuses working in isolation, but rather the result of building upon a foundation laid by previous thinkers and researchers. Merton writes:
"The vision of a dwarf standing on the shoulders of a giant may be taken to represent the special character of scientific collaboration."
Robert K. Merton
This metaphor encapsulates the idea that even a person of average ability (the "dwarf") can see further by building on the work of great predecessors (the "giants"). Merton's work emphasises the importance of acknowledging intellectual debts and the collective nature of knowledge creation. Like I said, progress is made through collaborative efforts and shared knowledge. Merton's ideas on the sociology of science provide a framework for understanding how scientific communities function and how knowledge advances over time. His work highlights the importance of both individual contributions and the broader scientific ecosystem in driving progress.
It's why open-source software works so well.
Following trends can sometimes lead to positive social change. When enough people start recycling, using reusable bags, or reducing meat consumption, it can have a significant environmental impact. The "herd" can move society in a better direction.
There's something to be said for the wisdom of crowds. In his book of the same name, James Surowiecki argues that under the right conditions, groups can be remarkably intelligent and often smarter than the smartest individuals in them. It's why markets can be efficient and why polling a diverse audience often leads to accurate predictions.
“Homogeneous groups are great at doing what they do well, but they become progressively less able to investigate alternatives. Or, as March has famously argued, they spend too much time exploiting and not enough time exploring.”
James Surowiecki
So, following isn't inherently bad. The key is to follow consciously, not blindly. To understand why we're going along with something, and to be ready to step back when it doesn't align with our values or common sense.
But while there's a time to join the crowd, there's also a time to stand apart.
The Perils of Blind Followership
While following can be beneficial, blindly going along with the crowd can lead us down a treacherous path. It's like sleepwalking through life - you might avoid some obstacles, but you're likely to bump into a few walls. One of the biggest dangers of blind followership is the loss of critical thinking. When we simply accept what we're told without question, our mental muscles atrophy. We become easy prey for misinformation, conspiracy theories, and dodgy sales pitches. (No, that email from a Nigerian prince probably isn't legit.)
Groupthink is another pitfall. This phenomenon, where the desire for harmony leads to irrational decision-making, has been behind some of history's biggest blunders. The Bay of Pigs invasion, the Brexit red bus NHS £350m lie - both resulted from groups failing to challenge flawed assumptions. In business, groupthink can lead to missed opportunities or spectacular failures. (Remember New Coke?)
Blind followership can also lead to ethical compromises. History is rife with examples of people "just following orders" to justify heinous acts. On a less extreme scale, we see this in workplace cultures where unethical practices are normalised. It's the "everyone else is doing it" mentality that can turn good people into reluctant participants in wrongdoing.
Most people will have heard of Stanley Milgram, a social psychologist at Yale University, who explored this concept in his famous and controversial obedience experiments in the 1960s. Milgram sought to understand how ordinary people could be compelled to inflict harm on others simply because an authority figure told them to do so. His experiments revealed a disturbing willingness in many participants to obey authority even when it conflicted with their personal conscience. Milgram concluded that the presence of an authority figure can significantly override individual moral judgement, leading people to commit acts they might otherwise consider unethical. This research shed light on the psychological mechanisms behind "just following orders'' and sparked important discussions about personal responsibility, the power of authority, and the potential for systemic evil in hierarchical structures.
Innovation and creativity often suffer when we blindly follow. If everyone's colouring within the lines, who's drawing new pictures? Some of the most groundbreaking ideas in history came from those who dared to think differently. Imagine if Steve Jobs had just accepted that computers were only for businesses and tech enthusiasts and if he hadn't gone to that typography class.
There's also a personal cost to constant conformity. When we always follow others, we risk losing touch with our own desires and values. We might find ourselves in careers we hate, relationships that don't fulfil us, or lifestyles that leave us feeling empty. It's like wearing shoes that don't fit - you can do it, but it's going to hurt.
Blind followership can make us vulnerable to manipulation. Marketers, politicians, and influencers often exploit our tendency to follow. They create artificial scarcity, use social proof, and appeal to our desire to belong. Before we know it, we're buying things we don't need, supporting causes we don't understand, or sharing opinions we haven't thought through.
When it comes to social media though, the perils of blind followership are amplified - and at an eardrum-bursting cacophony. Echo chambers reinforce our existing beliefs, making it harder to consider alternative viewpoints. Cancel culture can make us afraid to express dissenting opinions. The pressure to present a perfect life online can lead to anxiety and feelings of inadequacy.
Perhaps most insidiously, constant conformity can lead to a loss of authenticity. We become so focused on fitting in that we forget who we are. We laugh at jokes we don't find funny, feign interest in topics we don't care about, and suppress parts of ourselves that don't fit the mould. It's exhausting, and it robs the world of our unique perspective and contributions.
So while there's a time and place for following, we need to be awake at the wheel. We need to question, to think critically, to be willing to stand apart when necessary. Because if everyone's following, who's leading us to a better future?
Check out FRiDEAS #32 where I talk a lot about critical thinking
Cultivating Authenticity and Integrity
So, how do we avoid becoming mindless followers without turning into insufferable contrarians? It's all about cultivating authenticity and integrity. But it isn't about being different for the sake of it. It's about being true to yourself and your values, even when it's uncomfortable.
First off, we need to know ourselves. Sounds simple but with constant noise and distraction, truly understanding who we are and what we stand for can be a challenge. It requires introspection, honesty, and sometimes, a bit of courage. Asking yourself: What do I really care about? What are my core values? What brings me joy, not just fleeting pleasure? - these types of reflective questions are key to knowing when to sheep and when not to.
Developing critical thinking skills is crucial. This doesn't mean being cynical about everything, but rather learning to question assumptions, evaluate evidence, and consider multiple perspectives. It's about asking "why?" like a curious child, not an annoying teenager. Why do I believe this? Why does society work this way? Why is Marmite so divisive?
Building confidence in your own judgement takes practice. Start small. Form your own opinion about a book or a film before reading reviews. Make a decision without polling all your mates on WhatsApp. Trust your gut when something doesn't feel right, even if everyone else seems okay with it.
Authenticity isn't about being perfect; it's about being real. It's okay to be wrong, to change your mind, to not have all the answers. In fact, admitting when you don't know something is a sign of authenticity and strength, not weakness. (Politicians, take note.)
Integrity means aligning your actions with your values, even when no one's watching. It's about doing the right thing, not the easy thing. It might mean speaking up against a popular but harmful practice at work, or calling out a friend's inappropriate joke, or simply returning your shopping trolley to the bay instead of leaving it in the car park.
Cultivating authenticity also means embracing your quirks and imperfections. Your oddities are what make you interesting. Maybe you have an encyclopaedic knowledge of 90s boy bands, or you can recite the periodic table backwards. These aren't flaws to be hidden, they're part of what makes you uniquely you.
Remember, being authentic doesn't mean being inflexible. You can adapt to different situations while still staying true to your core self. It's about finding the balance between fitting in and standing out.
But it all requires courage. It's not always easy to go against the grain or to stand up for what you believe in. But every time you do it, you're flexing that authenticity muscle. It gets stronger. And you might just inspire others to do the same. Despite filters and fakery, real authenticity stands out. It builds trust, fosters genuine connections, and ultimately, leads to a more fulfilling life. So dare to be you – the unfiltered, imperfect, wonderfully weird you.
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Leading with Authenticity
Now that we've talked about cultivating personal authenticity, let's tackle the big question: how do we lead others without becoming the very thing we've been critiquing - a mindless herd-driver? Authentic leadership isn't about having all the answers or being the loudest voice in the room. It's about being genuine, transparent, and committed to something bigger than yourself. It's about inspiring others not through manipulation or force, but through your own example.
Authentic leaders are self-aware. They know their strengths, acknowledge their weaknesses, and aren't afraid to show their human side. I remember when Jacinda Ardern did a Facebook Live from her sofa after putting her toddler to bed. That's authentic leadership. It's relatable, it's real, and it builds trust.
Authentic leaders also have a clear sense of purpose. They're not just chasing the next quarter's profits or the next election win. They're driven by a vision of what could be, whether that's a more sustainable business model, a fairer society, or a revolutionary product. Think of Anita Roddick and The Body Shop. She wasn't just selling soap; she was promoting ethical consumerism and challenging the beauty industry's norms.
Integrity is non-negotiable for authentic leaders. They walk their talk. If they preach work-life integration, they don't expect replies to emails at midnight (as I have said before: sometimes it’s better for someone’s mental health and/or family situation to send emails at a later time so don’t buy into the nonsense of never sending emails after 5pm). If they champion diversity, it's reflected in their hiring practices. They make decisions based on their values, even when it's costly or unpopular.
Authentic leaders are also open to feedback and willing to change course when needed. They don't see admitting mistakes as weakness, but as an opportunity for growth. A good example of this is when Brewdog's CEO James Watt publicly acknowledged the company's cultural issues and committed to addressing them. That's authentic leadership in action.
Empathy is another hallmark of authentic leadership. It's about truly listening to others, understanding their perspectives, and considering the human impact of decisions. Marcus Rashford's campaign for free school meals showed authentic leadership through empathy. He used his platform to amplify the voices of those often unheard. I think I have said quite a bit about empathy over the years and this episode of the Edufuturists podcast with Ed Kirwan and Dr Helen Demetriou is worth a listen if you haven’t done so already.
These kinds of leaders also foster authenticity in others. They create environments where people feel safe to be themselves, to speak up, and to take risks. They value diversity of thought and encourage healthy debate. The best leaders understand that innovation often comes from unexpected places, and they create cultures where everyone feels empowered to contribute their unique perspectives.
But it isn't always comfortable. It might mean making unpopular decisions, having difficult conversations, or admitting you don't have all the answers. It's about being willing to stand alone when necessary, while still being open to others' input. It requires constant self-reflection.
In a world of spin and soundbites, authentic leadership stands out. It builds trust, inspires loyalty, and drives meaningful change. So whether you're leading a multinational corporation, a classroom, or just your local pub quiz team, you can lead with authenticity. Be real, be principled, be you.
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Walking the Tightrope: Authenticity in Complex Situations
Life rarely presents us with clear-cut choices between authenticity and conformity. More often, we find ourselves navigating murky waters where the right path isn't immediately obvious. It's in these grey areas that our commitment to authenticity is truly tested.
You might find yourself part of a team whose approach doesn't align with your values. Perhaps it's a marketing strategy that skirts ethical boundaries, or a company policy that seems short-sighted. The easy path would be to either blindly conform or rebel outright. But authenticity often requires a more nuanced approach.
In such situations, the key is to seek understanding before acting. Engage in dialogue, ask probing questions, and try to grasp the full context. You might discover valid reasons behind decisions that initially seemed questionable. Or you might uncover opportunities to influence the approach in a more positive direction. To be fair though, this is harder than it sounds. Asking ‘why are we doing this?’ is likely to get people’s backs up! I speak from experience (and current lived reality!). We need Radical Candor for sure but sometimes we also need time, patience and a little bit of decorum (or a lot) when seeking understanding.
Sometimes, it will mean finding creative compromises. Maybe you can't overhaul the entire strategy, but you can suggest tweaks that make it more ethical or effective. This approach allows you to stay true to your values while still working within the team framework.
Ethical decision-making in complex situations requires a combination of clear principles and flexible thinking. Start by clarifying your own ethical red lines or flags - the boundaries you're not willing to cross under any circumstances. With these as your foundation, you can then approach each situation with an open mind, ready to find solutions that honour both your integrity and the realities of the context. I have often found that there are fewer non-negotiables than I first thought - but that doesn’t mean you don’t need to get some groundwork in place.
Real-world examples abound of individuals navigating these tricky waters. I recently read about Dr. Peter Gøtzsche, a Danish physician and medical researcher. As a co-founder of the Cochrane Collaboration, a renowned organisation for systematic reviews in healthcare, Gøtzsche found himself in a complex situation when he began to criticise the pharmaceutical industry's influence on medical research.
Rather than simply conforming to the status quo or leaving the organisation entirely, Gøtzsche chose a challenging third path. He continued his work within Cochrane while vocally advocating for greater transparency in clinical trials and highlighting potential biases in industry-funded studies. This stance led to significant tension within Cochrane, ultimately resulting in Gøtzsche's expulsion from the board in 2018. However, he didn't abandon his principles or his field. Instead, he founded the Institute for Scientific Freedom to continue his work on research integrity.
Gøtzsche's approach demonstrates how one can navigate complex professional situations by maintaining core values and integrity, even when it leads to conflict within established systems. It shows that authenticity sometimes requires making difficult choices and facing consequences, but can also open new avenues for meaningful work.
Another example is the journey of outdoor clothing company Patagonia, who I talk about in my upcoming book, The Ideas Guy: Unleash Your Inner Genius. When faced with the environmental impact of their products, they didn't simply greenwash their marketing or ignore the issue. Instead, they took the bold step of actively encouraging customers to buy less and repair more, even if it meant short-term profit losses. This approach to addressing a complex challenge has paradoxically strengthened their brand and customer loyalty.
These examples illustrate that authenticity in complex situations isn't about dogmatically sticking to a position. It's about staying true to your core values while being willing to engage, understand, and find creative solutions. It's a delicate balance, but mastering this tightrope walk is key to maintaining integrity in a world that's rarely black and white.
Staying True in a Changing World
As we hurtle towards an increasingly digital and interconnected future, the idea of authenticity is evolving. The lines between our physical and virtual selves are blurring, presenting new challenges and opportunities for genuine self-expression.
We have mentioned social media multiple times already and we are confronted with a paradox. These platforms offer unprecedented opportunities for self-expression, yet they also encourage carefully curated personas. The challenge lies in maintaining authenticity while navigating the pressures of likes, shares, and follower counts. Some influencers are pushing back against this, sharing unfiltered glimpses of their lives and discussing mental health struggles openly. This 'new authenticity' resonates deeply with audiences fatigued by picture-perfect feeds.
What is more, the rise of remote work and digital nomadism is totally reshaping how we view authenticity in professional contexts. When our colleagues are spread across time zones and cultures, how do we build genuine connections? Some companies are tackling this by encouraging 'virtual water cooler' moments or hosting online team-building activities. Others are exploring how to translate company culture into a digital environment without losing its essence. I am not sold on this if I am honest but we need to keep finding ways to be more human when we are being led to be.
In diverse, multicultural contexts, authentic leadership is taking on new dimensions. Leaders are being called upon to create inclusive environments where people from all backgrounds feel they can be their true selves. This requires a delicate balance of cultural sensitivity and personal conviction. Some organisations are responding by implementing reverse mentoring programmes, where younger or minority employees mentor senior leaders, fostering mutual understanding and authenticity across hierarchies.
Deloitte, a leading global professional services firm, has successfully implemented one aimed at enhancing diversity, equity, and inclusion within the organisation. This initiative pairs younger employees, particularly those from underrepresented groups, with senior leaders to foster mutual understanding and bridge generational and cultural gaps, on digital trends, and changing consumer behaviours. For instance, one young mentor helped a senior manager understand the nuances of Instagram marketing and how younger consumers interact with brands on the platform. This exemplifies how organisations can leverage the unique perspectives of younger and minority employees to foster a more inclusive workplace. By facilitating open dialogue and mutual learning, such initiatives not only benefit individual participants but also contribute to the overall health and success of the organisation.
The concept of authenticity is also being challenged by advances in AI and virtual reality - it will be no surprise that this comes up in an essay from me. As we interact more with non-human entities and inhabit virtual spaces, questions arise about the nature of reality. Some argue that these technologies allow for new forms of expression, free from physical world constraints. Others worry about the potential for deeper deception and loss of genuine human connection. It’s going to be even harder for us to maintain a semblance of normality when we interchange with cyborgs on the regular.
Despite these changes, the core of authenticity remains constant: being true to oneself and one's values. What's evolving is how we express and maintain that authenticity in a changing world. It’s perhaps no surprise that I think the most authentic approach is to remain curious, adaptable, and committed to ongoing self-reflection.
When all we see are sheeple that don’t consider when or how to compromise, coupled with where and why to stand true, it is going to be a job to teach our young people how to steer a course. What I hope though is that we will find ways to express our core values in new contexts, and be willing to grow and change while staying rooted in what matters most to us. The allure of the herd is real and present; moreover, it’s often necessary at times. The intersection of followership and standingoutship has never been more important than today.
So, as five simple takeaways, to help us all walk the tightrope, have a think about:
1. Embrace the cracks - they're where your authenticity shines through. Leadership isn't about a flawless facade, it's about genuine connection.
2. Navigate the grey: Integrity thrives in nuance, not absolutes. In complex situations, understanding precedes action.
3. In the digital blur, authenticity is your anchor. As virtual and real worlds merge, conscious authenticity becomes your compass.
4. Be real, spark change: Your authenticity is contagious. By being genuinely you, you create ripples of transformation around you.
5. Herd or heard? Choose wisely, stay true. Cultivate the discernment to know when to follow and when to forge your own path.
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